What Am I Entitled to After 20 Years of Marriage? Understanding Your Rights

Edited by Alistair Myles - Partner

With over 15 years of specialist family law experience, Alistair works on complex financial remedy cases often involving assets in different jurisdictions and complicated trust structures. Alistair has worked on many reported cases over recent years.

After two decades of building a life together, unravelling the financial ties of a long marriage in divorce can seem daunting. As experienced specialist family lawyers we have guided many clients through this complex process. One common question we get asked is: "What am I entitled to after 20 years of marriage?" Your divorce settlement is likely to have a significant financial impact on the rest of your life, so let’s explore this question, focusing on the principles of fairness and need that underpin divorce law in England and Wales.

The Starting Point: Equal Division of Matrimonial Assets

The starting principle that a court will apply an equal division of the marital assets is even stronger after a long marriage but it is still crucial to understand that this is just the starting point. The court considers a wide range of factors to ensure a fair outcome, recognising the contributions and needs of both parties.

What Constitutes Marital Assets?

Marital assets include everything acquired or built up during your marriage, from property and savings to pensions and investments. It's not just about tangible assets; it also covers all your financial resources, debts and financial obligations. The goal is to divide these assets in a way that allows both parties to move forward securely after the divorce. It will depend heavily on the individual circumstances of the two ex-partners. You may not need to go to court to establish your financial divorce settlement if you can agree a way forwards.

Factors the Court Considers

  • The primary concern, especially in a long marriage, is the needs of each spouse. This includes housing, income, and both parties maintaining a standard of living as close as possible to what was enjoyed during the marriage. There will need to be full financial disclosure on both sides to determine the personal circumstances of both ex-partners.

  • Both financial and non-financial contributions are recognised. This means that not only earnings and assets but also caregiving, homemaking, and raising children are valued in determining entitlements.

  • After 20 years, you or your spouse might be nearing retirement age, which significantly impacts your earning capacity. The court takes this into consideration, particularly in assessing pension entitlements. The court will also take into account if one party has a physical or mental disability.

  • While it might not be possible to maintain exactly the same standard of living post-divorce, the court aims to ensure neither party suffers a disproportionate decline.

  • If you have dependent children, their needs and welfare are a priority, influencing decisions about housing and financial support. Child maintenance will form an important part of the overall settlement which is agreed. School and university fees, if any, will also be taken into account.

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Does Length of Marriage Affect The Divorce Settlement?

The length of a marriage significantly affects the divorce settlement in England and Wales. The duration of the marriage is one of the key factors that courts consider when determining how assets should be divided and whether any maintenance should be paid from one party to another. Here’s how the length of the marriage influences the divorce settlement:

1. Division of Assets

  • In shorter marriages, there may be less focus on an equal division of the assets acquired during the marriage, and there may be more of an emphasis on need. There may not be children in a shorter marriage, and the parties to that shorter marriage are not as likely to have mingled their finances together.

  • For longer marriages, especially those over 20 years, the starting point is typically closer to an equal division of all marital assets, regardless of whose name is on the deeds or accounts. The rationale is that the longer the marriage, the more intertwined the parties’ financial affairs and contributions (both financial and non-financial) become, making it fairer to treat marital assets as jointly owned.

2. Spousal Maintenance Payments

  • After a short marriage, spousal maintenance (if awarded at all) is more likely to be for a limited period, perhaps just to allow one party time to adjust financially to life post-divorce.

  • Following a long marriage, the court might award maintenance for a longer period, potentially until retirement age or until financial independence can be established, especially if one party has significantly less earning capacity or has taken career breaks to care for children or manage the household.

Following a long marriage, the court might award spousal maintenance for a longer period, potentially until retirement age or until financial independence can be established, especially if one party has significantly less earning capacity or has taken career breaks to care for children or manage the household.

3. Pension Entitlement

The division of pension entitlements is also influenced by the length of the marriage. After a long marriage, pensions are more likely to be divided equally, recognising that both parties have contributed to the accumulation of these assets, either directly or indirectly.

4. Standard of Living

The standard of living enjoyed during the marriage plays a role in the settlement, with the court more likely to strive to enable both parties to continue a similar standard of living after a long marriage, as far as the available assets allow.

5. Non-Financial Contributions

Longer marriages often mean that non-financial contributions, such as caring for children and the home, are given more weight in the financial settlement. This recognises the partnership approach to the marriage and the indirect economic sacrifices made by one party. The court does not put different weight on financial and non-financial contributions within a marriage. 

The length of the marriage is a crucial factor in divorce settlements in England and Wales, reflecting the principle that marriage is a partnership with joint contributions towards the couple’s assets and well-being. In longer marriages, there is a stronger emphasis on equal division of assets and maintenance to reflect the shared financial and non-financial contributions. However, every case is unique, and the court has discretion to adjust settlements based on the specific circumstances of the marriage and the needs of the parties involved.

“Ribet Myles have provided an exceptional service in helping me to reach my divorce settlement. From the top to the bottom, they have been a friendly but extremely professional company and have given me much needed guidance and reassurance throughout this stressful process.”
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Specific Entitlements After a Long Marriage

A divorce settlement will typically consider all the circumstances of both parties in determining what a fair and equitable split would be.

  • You may be entitled to a significant share of the family home and any other property, considering both your needs and your contributions.

  • Pensions are a key asset, especially after a long marriage. You might be entitled to a share of your spouse's pension, ensuring financial security in retirement.

  • If there's a disparity in earning capacity, one party may be required to pay maintenance, known as spousal maintenance, to support the lower-earning spouse, potentially until retirement or until they can become financially independent.

Seeking What's Fair

It's important to remember that "fair" doesn't always mean equal. The court's objective is to achieve a financial settlement that reflects the contributions made by both parties to the marriage and ensures that both can live securely post-divorce.

“I am so pleased I was introduced to Alistair Myles at Ribet Myles. The team have been amazing, with all the emotional upset of going through my divorce, Alistair and his team have always acted in a professional manner with the added bonus of being completely on top of everything with care and compassion. Very knowledgeable and always knowing the best way to move forward bringing my divorce to an end."
Christina Baccarini – Client Testimonial

Next Steps

  • An experienced family law solicitor can provide expert legal advice tailored to your circumstances, helping you understand your entitlements and navigate the divorce process.

  • Before heading to court, mediation can be a less confrontational way of reaching an agreement on dividing assets.

  • While understanding your entitlements is important, try to approach negotiations with an eye towards building a positive future for both parties.

Divorce after a long marriage involves careful consideration of many factors to ensure a fair outcome. By understanding your rights and seeking professional advice, you can navigate this challenging time more effectively, securing a future that respects the contributions and needs of both parties.

Getting the right legal advice early on in the divorce process can make a big difference to your settlement and potentially make the process more straightforward. For further advice and to speak an experienced specialist family lawyer call us on 020 7242 6000.

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